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Friday, December 25, 2020

And Lastly, A Great Ending

 Every great story needs a great ending.  Here's one of the best end-of-movie songs from one of the greatest movies ever made: Storybook Love from The Princess Bride.  (You know it's true!)  The lyrics have nothing to do with my story or my blog, I just really, really love this song and movie.  (And I just watched it last night, so it's fresh in my mind.)  :) 

And now it's time to say goodbye!

Seriously, let's not stretch it out.  It only makes it harder.  Let's just get it over with.  So ...

So long, farewell, Auf Wiedersehen, goodbye!

Merry Christmas, Y'All!

 Merry Christmas, Everyone!  May God bless you today and this next year.  May He show Himself to you in new ways, to encourage you, to help you along the hard paths, to restore your faith in Him (or draw you to Him for the first time), to lift you up when your heart is broken. 


Two songs that I love: Hallelujah Christmas (Cloverton) and Little Drummer Boy (For King and Country)

"Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the LORD." Luke 2:11 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."  John 3:16

"... if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.... Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved."  Romans 10:9, 13


(And this ends the posts that I had already put on the schedule to be posted on certain dates.  If I don't post after this, it's because I'm tired and need a break from writing.  Merry Christmas, y'all!)

Thursday, December 24, 2020

The Importance of Brokenness

Such a great sermon, one we can all learn a lot from and be encouraged by:

"Encountering God's Process" by Tony Evans

(And here's a great 10-minute video from his daughter, Priscilla Shirer: "We're Desensitized to our Blessings."  It just seemed to speak so well to the crazy world we're living in right now, maybe because now seems like the perfect time to dig through all the distractions around us to find Jesus.) 
And it's funny because just the other day, I was updating and typing up a "Bible Study/workbook" thing I wrote years ago, called "Through the Refining Fire: Your 'Sweetly Broken' Journey," and the stuff Dr. Evans was saying in the beginning was almost exactly the stuff I had just typed up, about how God usually has to break us to rebuild us, how it's part of the process of spiritual growth.  

I am sending this "Through the Refining Fire" workbook to my relative who's in jail because she shares the Bible things I send her with other people on her floor.  I figure it's one way I can try to help turn this whole bad situation (her arrest) around for good, at least for someone.  She might not want what I send her, but maybe a fellow prisoner will get something out of it.  Who knows?  But it helps me to know that I'm not just wallowing in despair, but that maybe I can help some eternal good come out of this bad situation for someone, even if it's not her. 

Wednesday, December 23, 2020

"We Believe" by Newsboys

 A favorite song of mine from Newsboys: We Believe

"He's coming back again!"

This song also plays at the end of my all-time favorite Christian movie, "Do You Believe?"  Watch it, with tissues nearby.

Tuesday, December 22, 2020

Links to the Posts in "Things My Calvinist Pastor Said" Series

 To make it easier to find, I compiled the links to all the posts in the "Things My Calvinist Pastor Said: We Left Our Church Because of Calvinism" series.  (That's right ... I'm not letting him or Calvinism off easy, not with the damage they do to God's Truth!) 

Monday, December 21, 2020

What Happened After Grandma Got Run Over By A Reindeer?

Okay, so we all know that Grandma got run over by a reindeer ... but guess what happened next?

Grandpa's gonna sue the pants off of Santa

Who knew!?!  I sure didn't, not till just a few years ago.

(I'm warning you now: This one will get stuck in your head.)


Sunday, December 20, 2020

The Carpenters: "Sing a Song"

 This song pops into my mind a lot (which drives my son nuts because then I'm always singing it out loud).  But how could I not?  In fact, I've found that singing, even when - especially when - I don't want to, uplifts my spirit and my mood like nothing else can.

So go ahead ... Sing a Song!  Sing it out loud and sing it out strong.

Not for anyone else, but just for you.  Just because it's fun!

(And what a cute video to go with it.  Totally made me smile!)  

Saturday, December 19, 2020

"Things My Calvinist Pastor Said" Conclusion: Our Resignation From Our Church

(This "Things My Calvinist Pastor Said" series is a breakdown on this much longer post: "We Left Our Church Because of Calvinism," which was written last year but updated July 2020.  All memes were created with imgflip.)









Conclusion:

Anyway, it's finally final.  We sent our resignation letter in yesterday, simply stating that "due to strong doctrinal disagreements with the head pastor, we are resigning from our membership here."  

We've been at that church for almost 20 years.  We've found some good friends there, raised our kids together, loved inviting people to visit our church with us, been part of some great programs, etc.  It's really been a great church.  One of the best and most biblical in the area.  

And then this pastor came in with his Calvinism.  And after several years of being angry with his manipulative tactics and his twisted-Gospel which turns God into an illogical, contradictory liar, we can no longer stand to be there.  We can no longer support that pastor and his twisted view of God and the Gospel.  We don't even want our names on the membership list, giving the appearance that we support him.  

Friday, December 18, 2020

"Have The Globalists Overplayed Their Hand?"

Just putting this out there for you all to read and consider and make your own mind up about:  Have The Globalists Overplayed Their Hand?


[Update from February 15, 2021: I am adding this note here because I don't know where else to put it.  I just wanted to share this story which I believe confirms my idea that our online devices are indeed listening to us all the time, even when we don't know it.  Our online service is used for our few tablets, phones, and laptops, but we don't have smart TV's or one of those always-on units that listens and responds when you ask it questions.  Well, yesterday we had some friends over, and we got to talking about the movie "Return to Oz" from 1985, about how creepy it was.  We talked about it for just a couple minutes, maybe 2-3.  Well, a couple hours after they left, I turned on a tablet, looked at the home "news page" (through the search engine that starts with "goo" and ends with "gle") and - lo an behold! - there was an article about why Return to Oz wasn't a bad movie.  I think there's NO WAY on earth that could be a coincidence, not when that's such an old, obscure movie.  I think "they" are listening.  Always listening.  Even when we don't know it and didn't set it up that way.  Creepy and disturbing!]


Update August 2021: I am also going to add these links here (and maybe more as I find them).  I want them easily accessible for me if I want to refer to them in the future.  You can think what you want about them, but there are interesting to say the least:

2020: We Can All Understand!

 2020 Version of Things

Here's hoping 2021 is better!

[Update: And now here's the new one for 2021.  That didn't take long.  But I'm glad to see we're trying to laugh about it.]

Thursday, December 17, 2020

Jesus Wasn't Always "Nice" (repost)

There's a disturbing trend going around, even on "Christian" blogs.  People are using Jesus' name to condone sin.

"Jesus was nice to everyone and never said anything mean to anyone" is being used - even by other Christians, not just the world - to silence Christians from speaking up about sin.  It's being used to defend everyone's choices and lifestyles because "Jesus never scolded anyone or judged anyone.  Because He was all about loving others."

Using Jesus' love to support things that Jesus never supported.

Very clever!

Very evil!

A Few Good TobyMac Songs

 Get Back Up Again  (God allows U-Turns!  There's always hope, always forgiveness, always a new day.)

Hold On (The pain won't last forever.  And His mercies are new every morning.)

Break Open The Sky (Amen, Come, Lord Jesus!)

Tuesday, December 15, 2020

Things My Calvinist Pastor Says #15: No Altar Calls, And Replacing "Believe" With "Repent"

(This "Things My Calvinist Pastor Said" series is a breakdown on this much longer post: "We Left Our Church Because of Calvinism," which was written last year but updated July 2020.  They are almost exact quotes.  All memes were created with imgflip.)


15.  Our pastor never does altar calls and never asks people if they want to ask Jesus in their heart or choose Jesus as their Lord and Savior.  Instead, Calvinists emphasize the need to "repent."
            As I mentioned in the last point, with Calvinism in general, there are no altar calls, no "Do you want to ask Jesus into your heart, to choose Him as your Lord and Savior?"  
            They say it's because they don't want people thinking they're saved just because they "walked the aisle" or "prayed a prayer."  But I know it's because they don't want people thinking they have a choice.  Because that would contradict their whole idea of election, that God decides for us and causes the elect to believe.
            Anyway, I just realized something interesting about a Calvinist's emphasis on repentance.  (You'll also see repentance emphasized in a Calvinist church's Statement of Faith, instead of any reference to accepting Jesus as Lord and Savior.)  I didn't really know why the Calvinist's emphasis on repentance bothered me so much (because, after all, repentance is a necessary, good, important thing), but then I was reading Acts 19:1-5 this morning and it hit me: 

Monday, December 14, 2020

"Water Colors" - Painting to Relax

 I was talking with a friend recently about ideas of things we can do to relax during these crazy days or during times of depression/anxiety.  Obviously, there's reading and baking and taking walks and gardening.  And drawing or painting have become quite popular.  (And I know lots of people were painting because all of Walmart's little bottles of acrylic paint were sold out for weeks during the lockdown in March.)

And I was telling my friend that I always wished I could draw.  Goodness, if I could draw like this guy, in his time-lapsed drawing of Gandalf, that would be freakin' incredible!  (If I could have any piece of art out there, it would be this one.  I love it!)  

Sunday, December 13, 2020

Two Great Switchfoot Songs

I've always loved this song by Switchfoot, makes me happy and sorta bittersweet at the same time:

Dare You To Move

And another great one I just heard for the first time (and this is a great movie, watch it: Unbroken: Path To Redemption.):

You Found Me


Saturday, December 12, 2020

Genuine Faith is Messy! (repost)

 [Along with the Scripture-based prayers I sent to my relative in jail, I also mailed this post that I wrote awhile ago.  (I didn't tell her I wrote it, but that I found it somewhere.)  I thought she might be able to relate and to find some encouragement in it.]


Genuine Faith is Messy

You know, if there’s one thing I’ve learned over these past depressing years, it’s that faith is messy sometimes.  Faith hurts sometimes.  It’s not as easy and predictable and “magic-wandy” as I used to think it was. 

And I think a critical part of strengthening and purifying your faith – of learning humility - is going through the trials and learning to praise Him in the pain, regardless of what’s going on in our lives.  Because it’s in the trials and the hurt and the messiness that I have learned to see God for who He really is and myself for who I really am.  It’s where I learned more about His love, grace, faithfulness, forgiveness, all-sufficiency, etc.  It’s where my faith grew (after much confusion and pain) and where my trust in Him was purified.

Friday, December 11, 2020

Simple Chicken Salad Sandwich with Dried Cranberries

Okay, so I bought a ton of cooked, canned chicken during the lockdown in March, and now I need to find ways to start using it.  

First I did a simple BBQ Chicken Pizza.  [Either make your own pizza crust dough or buy a premade one, top it with BBQ sauce and some chopped onions and garlic, sprinkle on some cooked chicken (drained and pressed, if it's full of water from the can), and add a thick layer of shredded mozzarella on top.  Bake till done.  I make my own thick crust, so I cook mine for about 30 minutes at 350 degrees.  If it starts to brown too much near the end, cover loosely with foil.]

Thursday, December 10, 2020

I Just Want To Finish Well! (repost)

 (Reposted from a few years ago.)  


Once again, I found myself in a small funk last month, feeling like I can’t accomplish anything.  Can’t give any one thing the effort and time it needs.  I am so stretched-thin in places.  The housework never gets done.  The construction never gets done.  There’s not enough money to fix this place up.  My cooking has seen better days.  There’s not enough time to do everything I want when it comes to homeschooling, so, of course, my boys are going to grow up to be great big drains on society. 

I was feeling a little panicked that things were slipping away from me too fast, that I couldn’t get a grip on anything.  And then I picked up a movie from the library that really settled my heart: Flywheel.  It’s an older one, the first one done by the people who made Courageous and Facing the Giants.  And I have to say that ... it ... is ... good!  It’s really good, even if it’s a little old and primitive.

Wednesday, December 9, 2020

It's Time To Be Horrified!

 (Published on my other blog in 2015.  And it's only gotten so much worse since then.)

As our society seems to be going to “hell in a hand-basket,” do you ever wonder where God is in all of this? 

Tuesday, December 8, 2020

Things My Calvinist Pastor Said #14: Babies Die As Unrepentant Sinners

(This "Things My Calvinist Pastor Said" series is a breakdown on this much longer post: "We Left Our Church Because of Calvinism," which was written last year but updated July 2020.  They are almost exact quotes.  All memes were created with imgflip.)



14.  (And most recently, on Mother's Day, this is what he said, practically word for word ...) "Christians love to believe that there is an age of accountability.  (My note: This is when someone becomes old enough to understand the difference between right and wrong.  And most Christians believe that children who die before this "age/condition of accountability" and mentally-handicapped people who can't understand the Gospel are covered by God's grace when they die, and so they go to heaven.  They were mentally incapable of being able to make a choice about accepting or rejecting Jesus, so they are not held accountable for being unable to make a choice.)  But nowhere in the Bible does it say there is an age of accountability for babies or children.  No one gets a free pass.  We are all wicked sinners from conception - sinners by birth, by choice (My note: It's deceptive for a Calvinist to use this word because they mean unregenerated people can only choose to sin!), and by nature, being cut off completely from God.  This is clear in Romans 3:23 which says 'for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,' and in 1 John 1:8 which says 'If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.'  All of us are sinners, and all sinners are required to repent in order to get into heaven.  (My note: Therefore, the obvious conclusion is that babies who died before they could repent are in hell.  They were born predestined to go to hell.)"  

Sunday, December 6, 2020

Saturday, December 5, 2020

Scripture-Based Prayers For The Hardest Times (updated)

 As some of you may know, a close relative of mine is in jail right now awaiting trial for ... well ... for something serious.  She is maintaining her innocence, while the rest of us think there's more to the story than what she's saying.  There will be a trial coming up sometime in 2021, and I will have to testify against her.  I'm really not looking forward to that.  

Anyway, I know I can't fix her situation for her.  I can't make it all better.  All I can do is offer whatever support I can, even though I have to testify against her eventually.  And even if I think she's not being totally honest with the authorities right now, I know that, deep down, she is a Christian.  A Christian who, I believe, is running from the Holy Spirit's conviction right now.

One of the ways I decided to support and encourage her is to keep sending her Scripture-based things.  Quotes.  Bible verses.  Bible studies.  Articles.  Etc.  I do this partly because I hope and pray that maybe something will get through to her, maybe something will give her the conviction and the strength to be honest, regardless of what will happen as a result.  

And I do this partly because I know she shares what I send with the women on her floor.  They copy it and pass it around.  

Friday, December 4, 2020

Wednesday, December 2, 2020

Things My Calvinist Pastor Said #13: God Doesn't Love Everyone

(This "Things My Calvinist Pastor Said" series is a breakdown on this much longer post: "We Left Our Church Because of Calvinism," which was written last year but updated July 2020.  They are almost exact quotes.  All memes were created with imgflip.)


13.  "The Bible says God loves people.  But the Bible is clear that God does not love all people and He doesn't love everyone equally.  He elected some sinners to salvation, and He predestined some for eternal damnation."
            Find me the verse that says God does not love everyone the same way!  Or a verse about how God's love is shown by whether or not He elects you to heaven.  Find me an actual verse that clearly says something like that, not just a mish-mash of verses, taken-out-of-context, about how God loved Jacob and hated Esau (the passage my pastor was using).  

Tuesday, December 1, 2020

DC Talk - "Fearless"

One of my favorite bands as a teen was DC Talk.  And I am talking way back from their first album with "Heavenbound" and "Spinnin' Round" and their second album with "Nu Thang" and "I Love Rap Music."  

(Wow, that really dates me!  And wow, was it nostalgic to go back and watch these videos again!)  

I even had (have) their video tape "Rap, Rock, & Soul."  I tell ya, I was a fan!  Always will be.  (My friend and I even did a choreographed "dance" to "Spinnin' Round" in front of our Christian camp one year in matching blue button-down shirts and men's ties.  Thank God there were no cell phone cameras back then.)  

Here's one of their great later ones, one many people can probably relate to:

Fearless

(And I've always loved these three also: "What If I Stumble?" and "Colored People" and who could forget "Jesus Freak."  I don't get the videos, but I love the songs!) 

FYI: Taking A Break From Writing

 I am just giving everyone a heads up: I will be taking a break from writing soon.  I still have some posts loaded up in the schedule to be posted till Christmas, but after that, I will probably take a break from these blogs.  A long break.  


I need to disconnect from the online world almost completely for awhile.  I don't even read the news anymore right now.  I am so sick of the online world and the media and all that, and I don't want to let it into my house or my life for a long while.  I don't even want to read my own writing right now.  I just need a break.  

Anyway, this is why I have been posting nearly every day for the past few months, to get it all out there before I take a break.  I'm not sure if or when I will write anything new.  If anything, I may just link to other people's things.  But I feel like I've said all there is to say for a long time.  (And if I do start writing again, I may fold this blog into one of my others, so that I can end this one.)  

Anyway, just letting you know that there's a light at the end of this tunnel, that the deluge of posts I put up every week won't last much longer.  :)

I hope you all enjoy your December and the holiday season.  I know the world's falling apart, but look for the silver linings.  They're out there.  I just know it.